The peaceful, sleepy babies you see throughout my work all have one common quality:
Their parents followed my simple prep guide before their session!
A peaceful state of sleepiness is the ultimate goal of a newborn session. A sleepy baby is critical to get a variety of poses during the time we have together and to ensure this, I’m asking for a bit of help from you. I’ve photographed hundreds of babies over the past ten years and have formulated the perfect sleep recipe! Even if your baby is a bit older than our ‘recommended’ age and we expect them to be awake for some of the time, this recipe can still work!
I recommend doing this step the night before so that everything is ready to go in the morning. Makes getting out of the house with your new baby just a *little* bit easier!
1. Milk – If Breastfeeding – Try to avoid spicy foods or foods that may make your baby gassy the day before your session (broccoli, peppers etc.) If Bottle feeding – Please bring enough for 1-2 extra feedings than you think you may need.
2. Pacifiers – We know that some babies don’t like them and some moms are hesitant to use them. But we often find that even if you never plan to use one after the session, it can be ESSENTIAL for us to use to soothe quickly in order to getting a variety of poses. No stuffed animals attached, please!
3. Clothing – Plan for skin to skin or neutral tops (white, cream, grey or black). Avoid stripes or patterns for the adults if possible. Soft colored or patterned dresses work best for little girls and polo shirts & jeans/khakis are classic for boys. Do not stress about your clothing. Most of it will not show – only the arms and possibly the neckline will likely show! As long as everyone is in the same color family, we will pose you to make it look perfect! Bring comfy clothes to change into once your part is finished!
4. Extras – Diapers, wipes, swaddle blankets & anything to make you feel more comfortable! We have water & coffee and a few snacks. You are welcome to bring food for you and non-messy, non-crumbly snacks for siblings.
5. Special Items – We have all the hats, wraps, blankets, & props you will need. But if there is something special to your family that you would like photographed with your baby, feel free to bring it along!
Try to keep baby awake for a few hours before the session – give them a bath, talk to them, etc. The purpose of a long, drawn out bath is to keep baby awake for some time before you leave for the session. After the bath, put on a diaper ONLY or something that is large & easy to remove and give them a FULL feeding. Keep baby safe and warm in the car seat – if you are able to do this with diaper only, that is wonderful. Avoid the SOCKS or anything that will leave marks – even tight diapers can be problematic! Please do not use LOTION on your baby after the bath! Flaky skin is common and most can easily be softened in the editing process. Lotion makes a baby’s skin glossy and shiny which is not good for pictures!
1270 Diamond Springs Rd. Suite 116
Virginia Beach, VA 23455
Our studio is located conveniently off I-64 at the Northampton exit. You’ll turn right onto Diamond Springs Rd and we are in the shopping center at the first left where you see Subway. Just come to the opposite end of the center and you’ll see our sign over the door!
WHEN YOU ARRIVE: Bring baby into the studio in their car seat – I will take baby out myself, being especially careful not to wake them. I will also get baby undressed (even if they have a soiled diaper) myself! There is no need to bring your stroller into the studio.
Baby is the boss!! We make no promises on specific poses as each baby is different and safety is our #1 priority. No matter what, you will have a full gallery of images!
Patience, grasshopper. This isn’t magic. It takes time & we have the experience & patience to make it work.
Eat, drink, catch a nap. Make sure you are still taking care of you! Many of our moms nap during the session and dads (or grandmas) often take siblings to the park (or beach!) nearby.
Do not be shy or feel self-conscious about breastfeeding in our studio. We are moms, too, who breastfed our children and take images of childbirth & nursing mamas all the time! You do not need a cover, but we have one available along with a nursing pillow if you need it.
It may be WARM in our studio. Babies like it warm, so we try to keep the room around 75-80 degrees. Dressing in layers and/or having a change of clothes is recommended. Feel free to step out and get some air. And ignore that we will look like a hot sweaty mess. 🙂
Poop and pee are normal. We have your baby naked. It happens and everything we have is washable.
It’s always fun to take behind-the-scenes snapshots and welcome those (especially if you tag us on social media and give us a shout out). But we ask that you don’t take photos of baby posed perfectly. Wait for the real thing. It’s worth it – We promise!
If you don’t like something, or have specific wishes, feel free to speak up! If you want baby mostly covered or no hats, we need to know from the beginning! If you hate flowers or a certain color, let us know! We will certainly use our creative vision, but we welcome your feedback and want to customize the session to your taste as much as possible!
From timeless keepsakes to themed photo fun, we’ve got everything covered: props, angles, lighting, and all the coffee required to make it look effortless. All you need to do is show up, relax, and let us create the kind of images you’ll swoon over for decades.
Life’s messy. Your portraits shouldn’t be.
Because let’s face it -
you’ve got enough on your plate.
Don’t worry, I got this. You show up, I’ll do the rest. Capturing the tiny toes, squishy cheeks, and absolute chaos of your new baby? That’s my superpower.
Click the button. Slide into my inbox. Let’s make some damn magic. Your future self (and your Insta followers) will thank you.
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